tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post6572136490734961714..comments2024-03-29T07:29:32.276-04:00Comments on Janet Reid, Literary Agent: What the hell is wrong with you, JanetJanet Reidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00615380335938685231noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-70312282617988883642009-06-24T15:46:55.363-04:002009-06-24T15:46:55.363-04:00I don't think you should feel bad. In fact, I ...I don't think you should feel bad. In fact, I think this querier is being unpardonably rude in both sentiment and expression.<br /><br />You lived up to your promise of responding to the person's query rather than using the "no response means no" policy. You don't owe this person any thanks for sucking up to you in their query letter. Their reward for doing their research and personalizing their query is that you gave the query fair consideration and let them know your decision. That's all you have time to do. You don't work for queriers, you work for your clients!<br /><br />The idea that you should THANK them for reading your blogs ... I'm stunned. It's not that hard to read an agent's blog. In fact, it's fun. I consider it a leisure activity.Joliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16854297753580066357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-92157460071812656202009-06-24T11:04:25.397-04:002009-06-24T11:04:25.397-04:00Have you ever considered going back to the olden d...Have you ever considered going back to the olden days of snail-mail queries? I know, not environmentally friendly, but I'm betting it would cut the number of queries (and number of too-hastily-sent queries) in half. Or less. It's just far too easy for people to press that button - there's something about actually having to print it out on good bond paper that makes the author consider it much more carefully. At least some of them.Sara J. Henryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16145626175256433448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-1566473413685752992009-06-23T14:01:37.778-04:002009-06-23T14:01:37.778-04:00Janet,
I would love to send you a query... but on...Janet, <br />I would love to send you a query... but one thing I did learn from this blog is that you are interested in mysteries, not memoirs. <br /><br />I actually prefer a form letter rejection. It is usually leaner and free of subliminal sarcasm. I think a form letter is the professional way to go:<br /><br />"Thank-you for the query. I do not think I am the best agent to represent your work. Best of luck in your career." Or some variation of.<br /><br />An agent should not use a reply for any other agenda except to accept or reject the query. Yes, I like form rejections.Marjoriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13323661411548419175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-20032594658660469792009-06-23T12:13:53.193-04:002009-06-23T12:13:53.193-04:00Dammit, Janet, I love you! I just felt that warran...Dammit, Janet, I love you! I just felt that warranted a Rocky Horror quote...<br />Happy rejecting!tinkandalissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01519082764772978297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-71057251029299102972009-06-23T11:55:39.194-04:002009-06-23T11:55:39.194-04:00Well....I have to say I disagree alittle bit. Tha...Well....I have to say I disagree alittle bit. That was sort of what I was hinting at with the technology issue. And I think you're grappling with this one, because it's not so clear cut.<br /><br />Since everyone is agreeing, I'd like to add a small voice of dissent.<br /><br />I think it may be different with blog regulars. I spend alot of time on another agent's blog, and when I got a rejection letter, it was short but personalized. That felt appropriate. It just would have been hurtful to receive a form rejection.<br /><br />Of course, since I was a regular, I knew better than to send a thank you letter.<br /><br />But I think the relationship bloggers develop is a real one. It's a matter of role. When the role shifts to agent/potential client things get more business like, but the relationship is still there.<br /><br />So, I think I might make exceptions for blog regulars, but again that's up to you. I know e-mail can be overwhelming. I also do think there is technology that will help out here.Mirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02558405035294107657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-20727880420443632622009-06-23T11:27:13.221-04:002009-06-23T11:27:13.221-04:00Don't feel bad Janet! Form rejections are par...Don't feel bad Janet! Form rejections are part of the game. Research is part of the game. I recently blogged about the "other side" of querying when I read a post from an agent stating that she had 1300 new emails in her inbox. If you wrote a personal, in-depth rejection to everyone--you wouldn't have time to agent anyone! I'm not going to say that form rejections aren't hard to read. Sometimes I wish that I knew why I was being rejected. But like I said, it's part of the process and writers simply can't be upset about it. Sounds like your querier just had a case of sour grapes!Amanda Bonillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05983960181205765184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-47876540309527950792009-06-23T09:17:05.388-04:002009-06-23T09:17:05.388-04:00I don't DREAD the rejection, rote-form or othe...I don't DREAD the rejection, rote-form or otherwise. I treat them as my proof of battle, evidence that I'm doing my bit.<br /><br />And I just got an agent...haven't signed yet. Still playing it cool.Fran Caldwellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13545648992948168762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-53872387802171289132009-06-23T08:12:56.560-04:002009-06-23T08:12:56.560-04:00Janet, I have never queried you, but it sounds lik...Janet, I have never queried you, but it sounds like you're doing the right thing. My personal opinion is that an agent should respond in some form to every query that conforms to his/her submission policies. Beyond being common courtesy, I think it's good business. Just because you're rejecting a writer now doesn't mean he/she won't write a great book in the future.<br /><br />At any rate, the form letter is the only way many agents can respond to all the queries they get. I would much rather get a form than no response at all.Jasonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14436510596736487435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-56222065124062850572009-06-23T08:04:25.916-04:002009-06-23T08:04:25.916-04:00jj said it very well... keep doing it your way, wr...jj said it very well... keep doing it your way, writers need to develop thicker hides, not take everything personally... and realize just how busy everyone's lives are, just like their own....laughingwolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08873675614347328116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-21833517447764538872009-06-23T02:59:20.588-04:002009-06-23T02:59:20.588-04:00People don't always understand that agents are...People don't always understand that agents are people too. He might want to check out this short video on why literary agents don't always return calls:<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQ8_mALzVecGumbo Writershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12464099613881147337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-55413640578902540922009-06-23T00:30:36.582-04:002009-06-23T00:30:36.582-04:00I sent you a perfectly fine comment; I even told y...I sent you a perfectly fine comment; I even told you I understood you didn't comment on rejections.<br /><br />What's wrong with you? You can't even say thanks for reading my perfectly fine comment? It was replete with grammatical correctness and such...<br /><br />Sheesh, c'mon.Magshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05350451902814461987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-37825591341009812172009-06-22T23:51:47.768-04:002009-06-22T23:51:47.768-04:00I still think your great and read your blog even t...I still think your great and read your blog even though I received the dreaded form rejection letter! I completely understand about having to send a form rejection in order to be able to have the time to read the queries at all. I really hate the no response, then your hanging out there thinking well maybe I should just give them a little more time.....at least your quick to respond with a yes or no. I like my bandaids to be ripped off quickly.Marsha Sigmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11095210839900479297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-68508994145110519062009-06-22T22:40:32.452-04:002009-06-22T22:40:32.452-04:00I got a rejection from you just today -- I really ...I got a rejection from you just today -- I really didn't think it was that bad...I don't feel completely dejected. Of course, I just got a promotion at my day job today. Perhaps God is trying to tell me something...Stef Kramerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13602212863188597824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-75253752794088380312009-06-22T22:33:05.017-04:002009-06-22T22:33:05.017-04:00Did you mean CLEARLY as in "CLEARLY"? Ca...Did you mean CLEARLY as in "CLEARLY"? Cause I'm seeing a big ol' pair of quotes there... Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01603891627784763004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-91140472551243603092009-06-22T22:14:59.105-04:002009-06-22T22:14:59.105-04:00But any "daily even" reader of your blog...But any "daily even" reader of your blog already knows you use forms for rejection, as well as your reasons for doing so.Magshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05350451902814461987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-67653577906589197662009-06-22T22:00:03.504-04:002009-06-22T22:00:03.504-04:00Janet,
Good point was made above about how a pers...Janet,<br /><br />Good point was made above about how a person who follows a blog comes to feel they know you. That's hard because you get to where you, as the blog owner, get to recognize the names of regulars too.<br /><br />My take on this is simple. This is a business. As such, business etiquette is a must. <br /><br />Look at it this way. If you want to get noticed in a chosen field, you may study how to write a resume for that field. You may read journals or the company’s blog to get a step up. You submit a resume and you're not chosen. You get a form letter and sometimes not even that. It's career suicide to get huffy or go on the attack. It’s not professional. Above all you want to be perceived as a professional, because maybe the next time, you will be what they’re looking for, but an unprofessional response now, on your part, can nix in a heartbeat any future opportunities. <br /><br />I look at queries as a form of a resume. No one likes rejection, whether it is an idea, application for a job, or getting an agent. This is business. It’s not personal.~Sia McKye~https://www.blogger.com/profile/08470562659597351033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-30523143243011331092009-06-22T21:25:16.625-04:002009-06-22T21:25:16.625-04:00Janet,
I totally get the death by email thing. My...Janet,<br /><br />I totally get the death by email thing. My last job had so much email that my palms would sweat when I checked my inbox after being busy with something else for a couple of hours. (I'm not kidding.)At least 30% was not important or chatty follow up to stuff that was done. And the dreaded "Reply All" plague of Corporate America.<br /><br />It's nearly impossible to explain this phenomenon to people who don't rely so much on email for their job. It seems fast, easy, effortless...as long as you're not getting 200 a day.Laurelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06120847492230531939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-38269926005185000972009-06-22T21:05:08.079-04:002009-06-22T21:05:08.079-04:00I got a nice rejection letter from an editor that ...I got a nice rejection letter from an editor that gave some helpful advice and invited me to submit (something else) again. <br /><br />I wanted to write a thank you note, but thought to e-mail <a href="http://editorialanonymous.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">Editorial Anonymous</a> about it. She replied (bless her!) that I shouldn't send a note. Once the editor sends the response, they forget about the MS. The time to mention it would be when I submitted again. That really made sense to me. <br /><br />Kate, I agree with you- we do tend to feel we know a blogger. It can be easy to lose perspective.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06909176210194176373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-55707300100493908062009-06-22T20:07:42.402-04:002009-06-22T20:07:42.402-04:00CKHB, you've made my point exactly. Anytime I ...CKHB, you've made my point exactly. Anytime I say anything beyond a form letter, it generates more mail. No matter how it seems "more mail" is not a good thing.Janet Reidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00615380335938685231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-5746439562993056942009-06-22T19:05:58.797-04:002009-06-22T19:05:58.797-04:00A reply like that is simply unprofessional, and wo...A reply like that is simply unprofessional, and would get negative results in ANY business. <br /><br />Hard to believe that people can't tell when they are crossing such a line.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-4340001594816045442009-06-22T19:03:52.850-04:002009-06-22T19:03:52.850-04:00Oh, I always respond with thanks to a nice rejecti...Oh, I always respond with thanks to a nice rejection (i.e. any rejection with positive language that is clearly not a form letter).<br /><br />If the agent has taken the time to make a comment about my work, I feel that a response is warranted, and I usually get a follow-up email from the agent wishing me good luck or a similar note that makes me think such emails are generally appreciated.<br /><br />Thanking an agent for a form rejection seems unnecessary to me, although I can see how, in the light of too many non-response-equals-no policies, one would be tempted to thank an agent for acting in his or her standard fashion if that included status updates and the like!CKHBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17741681893677604323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-48992114302429672372009-06-22T18:02:43.534-04:002009-06-22T18:02:43.534-04:00An agent recently sent me a rejection that was nic...An agent recently sent me a rejection that was nice, and she'd done some other awesome things too (like sending me a quick note when she received the partial that she requested, just to let me know she got it). It was ALL I COULD DO not to reply and say, "Thanks for being so awesome and professional throughout this process. Anybody who gets you as an agent is really damn lucky." It was only because of this blog that I decided not to. I posted something nice on the thread about her in the AW forum instead.Larahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02551925939303810818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-58254877449705721882009-06-22T17:04:52.458-04:002009-06-22T17:04:52.458-04:00I feel lousy when I send them too, and I don't...I feel lousy when I send them too, and I don't even blog. <br /><br />Tell yourself it's for the best and that you're preserving the purity of their artistic vision by not sullying it with your personal taste.<br /><br />Works for me.Sarah J. MacManushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03430266551248332700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-89481073394072911042009-06-22T16:24:01.115-04:002009-06-22T16:24:01.115-04:00Teaching the octopus to type sounds like a great i...Teaching the octopus to type sounds like a great idea. Just think how many wpm she'd acheive.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17040756.post-26416849888506393032009-06-22T15:51:29.267-04:002009-06-22T15:51:29.267-04:00That sounds odd to me; I would have thought the th...That sounds odd to me; I would have thought the thank you should go the other way. You did take the time to handle her unsolicited query, and in writing the blog that's teaching her query skills in the first place. <br /><br />So, you could have replied to the queryer with, "So where's my box of chocolates, if you like the blog so much?" and it would have been on the same level as hers, I'm thinking, in being just not quite rational.<br /><br />Oh well. Makes life interesting I guess. Good luck with e-mail tomorrow!Susan at Stony Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10385202649291774852noreply@blogger.com